ah...the groom* photo. so your man's not photogenic, or so he thinks. doesn't like to pose or get his photo taken. just another good reason to get a photographer who can make a lime-ricky out of cranberries (or whatever). you've got to hire a photographer who can capture your man just as he is, without him feeling the pressure. it is possible. it is.
check out these folks who are some of my favorite photographers:
*this is not meant to be sexist or to single out men, some women also feel uncomfortable in front of the camera (and i also realize that not all weddings have a groom!)